Lockdown Portraits Session Three
Balancing Act • Krissy
April 8, 2020
Amidst the upheaval of the 2020 Corona Lockdown, I embarked on a personal mini project that became a testament to resilience: Lockdown Portraits. These are not just photos; they are glimpses into the lives of real people—individuals navigating the challenges and triumphs that isolation brings.
Each portrait tells a story, not of models, but of everyday heroes facing the ordeals of lockdown with courage and grace. To add depth to the visual narrative, I posed two questions to each participant, unearthing personal insights that accompany their portraits.
Third-up was Kristel Molly: Entrepreneur, Mom, Thinker, Dancer, Model, and Sparkling Banana Girl.
Lockdown has pushed me to take things a bit slower, to re-prioritize my life and choices.
Can you describe to what extent the lockdown has affected your life and how? both on a personal and professional level?
Professionally, I need to balance my working time more than
ever with taking care of my 5 year old kid, which is quite a
challenge. I’m co-parent and have my kid 50% of the time.
After 3 weeks of lockdown, I’ve noticed that I can’t work
and take care simultaneously and maintain my sanity, which
requires flexibility from my employer in terms of
expectations and from myself. Luckily, my job already
allowed me to work remotely, so in that sense little has
changed.
In a personal sense, it has affected my craving to
socialize with other people in the real, outside world.
Thank God for making phone calls and FaceTime, but it’s not
the same. Being forced to stay inside and limiting contact,
can draw me inward from time to time, which is not always
good. I’m a thinker and my thoughts can cause my braincells
to work overtime. Luckily, most of my thoughts are positive
and lockdown has pushed me to take things a bit slower, to
re-prioritize my life and choices and to work on some
personal projects
If anything, what do you think will you take away from all this. Any lessons learned?
Always lessons learned! Lockdown has sparked my creativity
in the broadest sense, which allows me to do things
alternatively or completely different. I love that! Also,
I’ve become more conscious of my spending, health, body and
life in general. I realize that I love spending time with my
kid in different ways. For sure, I can’t wait for the school
and day-care to open again, don’t get me wrong; I’m not the
stay-at-home-mom kinda type. But I’m sort of happy that I
have this time to qualitatively spend with her.
This whole situation is a mental waiting game and I’m glad
to say that my outlook is quite positive (thank God for
music too, I couldn’t live without that). It takes a lot to
push me of my positivity pedestal. And although I also have
my down days, I’ll be damned to get beaten by Corona 😊 (🎧
on Spotify: “Kith” – Hilary Woods)