Lockdown Portraits Session Three
Balancing Act • Krissy
April 8, 2020
Amidst the upheaval of the 2020 Corona Lockdown, I embarked on a personal mini project that became a testament to resilience: Lockdown Portraits. These are not just photos; they are glimpses into the lives of real people—individuals navigating the challenges and triumphs that isolation brings.
Each portrait tells a story, not of models, but of everyday heroes facing the ordeals of lockdown with courage and grace. To add depth to the visual narrative, I posed two questions to each participant, unearthing personal insights that accompany their portraits.
Third-up was Kristel Molly: Entrepreneur, Mom, Thinker, Dancer, Model, and Sparkling Banana Girl.
Lockdown has pushed me to take things a bit slower, to re-prioritize my life and choices.
Can you describe to what extent the lockdown has affected your life and how? both on a personal and professional level?
Professionally, I need to balance my working time more than ever with
taking care of my 5 year old kid, which is quite a challenge. I’m
co-parent and have my kid 50% of the time. After 3 weeks of lockdown,
I’ve noticed that I can’t work and take care simultaneously and
maintain my sanity, which requires flexibility from my employer in
terms of expectations and from myself. Luckily, my job already allowed
me to work remotely, so in that sense little has changed.
In a personal sense, it has affected my craving to socialize with
other people in the real, outside world. Thank God for making phone
calls and FaceTime, but it’s not the same. Being forced to stay inside
and limiting contact, can draw me inward from time to time, which is
not always good. I’m a thinker and my thoughts can cause my braincells
to work overtime. Luckily, most of my thoughts are positive and
lockdown has pushed me to take things a bit slower, to re-prioritize
my life and choices and to work on some personal projects
If anything, what do you think will you take away from all this.any lessons learned?
Always lessons learned! Lockdown has sparked my creativity in the
broadest sense, which allows me to do things alternatively or
completely different. I love that! Also, I’ve become more conscious of
my spending, health, body and life in general. I realize that I love
spending time with my kid in different ways. For sure, I can’t wait
for the school and day-care to open again, don’t get me wrong; I’m not
the stay-at-home-mom kinda type. But I’m sort of happy that I have
this time to qualitatively spend with her.
This whole situation is a mental waiting game and I’m glad to say
that my outlook is quite positive (thank God for music too, I couldn’t
live without that). It takes a lot to push me of my positivity
pedestal. And although I also have my down days, I’ll be damned to get
beaten by Corona 😊 (🎧 on Spotify: “Kith” – Hilary Woods)